i prefer ability to IM; if people don't want to respond, that's fine.
Posted: 14 Jul, '10

K, may i have your email address cuz i prefer communicating off the site.
Laura.
Posted: 10 Sep, '10

that would be great!
Posted: 12 Sep, '10

Everyone: A reminder to please be careful giving your email address to anyone that wants to "communicate off the site". Most real people prefer to have the first few communications on the site for a reason - to protect their privacy. If a user writes you (or posts) asking for your email so they can write you, 99 out of 100 times, it is a scammer - trying to get your email so that at best they can add you to a junk mail list and, at worst, to try and scam you out of money or solicit you for something else.

Be careful! The site is free and anyone can join (including people out to scam you) - if you get a suspicious message, report it so we can investigate and, if necessary, remove that person's account. If someone is over interested and they seem to good to be true, you know it probably is.
Posted: 12 Sep, '10

BTW - we are currently working on adding Instant Messaging to the site. Right now, the site doesn't "feel" active because, without IM, people generally read and respond to messages and sign off.

But you may be interested to know that more than 4,000 messages have been exchanged on the site!


More soon........
Posted: 14 Sep, '10

Launching next week!
Posted: 28 Oct, '10

Instant messaging is live! Read all about it in the News section on your homepage :)
Posted: 9 Nov, '10