The Dating Game

Marianne Giselle Franks (UK)
International Shadchan Matchmaker & Dating Expert
Email ; jewishsingles@thejewishsingleseventscompany.com

The Dating Game
Ladies & Gentleman the dating game is a little like the US Open Tennis, he says. she says. Combine that with a dash of chess, his move, her move. Dating can seem like a game!
Why is this? One may ask... "I am not into games, been there, doen that got the ticket. No more for me, thank you and good bye.

The law of nature in life shows man as the hunter ( pursuer) and women as the prey.
Now here is where the games truly hence forth commence. Though once a couple pass the initial stages of dating and fall into a relationship, the games should cease. If things seem like hard work whilst dating, do not be too put off. Unless your partner is making you feel unhappy or bad about yourself.

Always keep in mind that in a good relationship, one should feel happy & content Certainly one should not feel the need to walk on egg shells or unhappy or inadequate in any way shape or form.

I was once in a relationship where I felt that I was playing the starring role on the London stage. Each date creating an Oscar winning performance, attempting to be somebody I was not. Ultimately the relationship failed.
Though I am positve I could have won the Oscar for a fabulous leading lady in a theatrical performance.

So the moral is do not chase men. Be yourself and know that you are indeed enough. Make sure you have a partner that makes you feel good about yourself.
Ladies do not date a man whom phones you late at night and asks you to go over to his place. If a man cannot be bothered to make an arrangement to take you out on a proper date. The likelihood is that he has no real care for you. A Lady only accepts a quality man in her life. Anything less is simply not good enough.

Men make sure the lady wants you for you, and not material things. Ask yourself would she be with me If I lost everything?

Dating Tips For Men
1. Make her feel special
2. Phone her and plan dates ahead of time
3.Ask her what food she likes and take her to a romantic restaurant or cook her a romantic meal.
4. Buy her a romantic gift for the holidays.

Dating Tips For Women
1. Thank him after he has taken you out on a lovely date. You do not need to overdo it . Once is enough!
2.Thank him when he compliments you and never talk a man out of a compliment. When a man gives you a compliment it is something special. Accept graceffully as you would a beautiful gift. Imagine it is the Hope Diamond - now you would not return that would you!
3. Never ask a man out on a date. If he wants you he will come for you, even if he is shy... if hereally wants you he will finally come your way.
4. Never settle for less than you feel you deserve this goes for men as well