If you get an email from a member telling you to contact them on their personal email "because I don't logon here often" or similar, they are probably a SCAM.  Scammers join and send as many emails as possible before we delete their account (often within hours of their joining). They want your personal email so that they can begin contact with you in a place where they can gain your trust and ultimately try to either extract money or worse.

They especially prey on users over 50 that are less familiar with these tactics but they may email anyone.

If you get an email and cannot view their profile, we've already deleted them.

If you are suspicious at all about a user, please use the "Report this profile" link on that user's profile or use the Contact Us link.